
Something nice that summarises weddings but isn’t actually from the wedding…
I attended a wedding at the weekend. The first proper, religious wedding that I have ever been to.
Held in a tiny church on a hill overlooking the bay at Torquay, two of my university friends finally tied the knot. After…let me see, four proposals and several years working just to pay for the thing!
The weather was pretty crap. We got utterly soaked the day before and the day after, but at least on the big day all we got was the wind in our hair and…for the kilt-wearing men in the party it was ‘unnervingly breezy.’ I had to laugh. Now who’s worried about their skirt flying up, eh?! Hehe.
What struck me about the whole thing though, was how completely *theirs* the wedding was. They were both the same fun, bouncy people I remember from uni.
Everything was at the same time traditional and totally about my two friends. She wore a beautiful white dress – with bright yellow converse shoes. He was wearing traditional Irish tartan – and carrying a mobile phone in his sporran. The dinner was set up like a tea party and the cake was green and yellow, (as were the bridesmaid dresses!) our bride’s favourite colours. They had a bagpipe player at the ceremony – and a skiffle band at the reception.
It was amazing. Everything about it was perfect and about celebrating what made the two of them unique. I was expecting it to be dull, I have to be honest. But in fact it was never dull. It was a great, fun day.
It did leave me wondering though, if I was ever to get married…I have changed so much since our uni days that I wonder if my friends could recognise the little touches that made the day mine?
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